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You
can tell Jessica Grubb is a college student—the sweatshirt and backpack
give it away. You might guess from her spirit, her smile and her curls
that she is a former cheerleader and sometime coach. The combination of
Information Systems and French classes might suggest her major—international
business—and the ring says she married.
But
did you know she has two sons? It’s in her eyes. See the sparks
there? A twinkle in each eye, one for Jeffrey; one for Seth. Her eyes
look happy—a little tired, perhaps, but happy.
Grubb
and student-parents like her have been changing the face of enrollment
at colleges across the nation. They also are changing the types of services
colleges and universities must offer, from flexible class schedules to
married and family housing to childcare. Grubb’s sons spend their
weekdays at Tot’s Place, an on-campus daycare/educational center
on the first floor of Bishop Hall, open to students, faculty, staff and
community. The convenience of on-campus daycare is critical for parents
who balance work, school and family on a daily basis.
Always
On the Run
Grubb
wakes each morning at 5:45 a.m. in order to get the boys up and dressed,
and make it to morning classes. Her husband, Jeff, works construction—he
leaves early and gets home just about suppertime—so during the day,
it’s all Mom. She drops off Jeffrey and Seth at Tot’s Place
just before 8 a.m., where four-year-old Jeffrey sits down to his morning
energy builder, prepared by a professional chef. Jeffrey is enrolled in
the Northeast Michigan Community Service Agency’s (NEMCSA) Head
Start program at Tot’s Place, thanks to an ongoing partnership between
the two organization that began in Fall 1998.
Jessica
heads to class-statistics or information systems, depending
on the day. Today is Wednesday, so it’s ISYS. Mommy settles into
her chair and boots up a computer.
Jeffrey
joins his friends for playtime. Seth meets with his “family
group” and sits down to a story. The family group consists of a
small group of friends, all of whom are at the same developmental stage.
The group is assigned a primary adult to attend to their personal and
group needs.
At
9 a.m., Professor Novotny concludes his lecture. Jessica
has one hour to slip home, eat, finish her homework and maybe begin today’s
round of phone-tag as manager of East Campus Apartments. French class
begins at 10 sharp.
At
Tots Place, the Head Start group begins work in the activity
center, drawing, cutting, pasting. Seth’s group is working on basic
motor skills—he has perfected his crawling technique and now tries
his hand at walking, with the help of his group leader.
Halfway
through French class, Jessica has a decision to make:
Go to the gym or the grocery store? Out of diapers and short on milk and
cereal, at 11 a.m. she’ll head to the store. Pushing a cart and
lugging milk jugs will do for exercise today.

In
the Head Start room, Jeffrey turns the lights off and
on again to signal clean-up time. Next is the morning sing-along—first
the number song, then the month song, then a farmer’s song, about
milking cows and those darn ticks.
At
11:30 it’s lunchtime—and time for a fresh
diaper for Seth. Naps follow for all the kids. At half past 12, Jessica
picks up Seth and heads home for her lunch. If he’s in a good mood,
she’ll get her homework done before supper.
Its
mid-afternoon. Mommy’s splitting her time between
Seth and her studies, and Jeffrey is ready for some post-nap fun. He starts
his activities with a farming puzzle, then turns to the toy farm animals—moooo!
After that, he joins his friends at the activity center to build a house
of Legos. At 4 p.m., the preschool group heads outside. Jeffrey and friends
swing on the swing set, slide down the slide and play tag.
Shortly
after 5 p.m., the children head inside and get ready to
go home. Jeffrey grabs his drawing when Jessica and Seth arrive. By 5:30
the boys are enjoying a snack as Jessica starts dinner. Dad will be home
from the construction site soon. Dinner is served at 6:30, and the whole
family gathers for the meal.
The
boys take their baths at 7:30, and hit the sack at 8 p.m.—sweet
dreams for them, but for Mom, it’s back to work. Homework first,
then her management duties: noise complaints, check-ins and check-outs,
organizing social activities for the apartment residents and taking inventory.
At
11:30 Mommy heads to bed. Sleep will come quickly, and
so will the morning.
Full-time
Student; Working Mom
The
convenience of on-campus daycare is a big plus for Grubb, but affordability
is critical. That’s why a recent grant from the U.S. Department
of Education is so important.
According
to Tot’s Place Manager Lori Johnson, the $250,000 grant extends
through September 2005, providing funding for improvement of services,
staff training and most importantly, financial assistance for childcare
costs to Pell-Grant-eligible student-parents.
“Roughly
$46,000 of the grant will be available to help students with childcare
costs in the first year,” said Johnson. “It will be distributed
equally among the eligible students and will help greatly with meeting
their need for affordable childcare.”
“On-campus
daycare is very important to me, especially because we’re moving
to West Campus Apartments, so we’ll be right there—I can walk
the kids over instead of having to drive,” says Grubb. “I
already have to get up early because I have 8 a.m. classes—now I
have both of the boys at the same place, and drop them off at the same
time. And it’s affordable—that’s extremely important.”
Tot’s
Place provides academic support services, as well, including providing
occasional evening childcare so parents can study, spend time in the computer
lab or seek help from tutors in Bishop Hall.
 Grubb
has enough to worry about without dwelling on daycare—as a full-time
student, manager of a University apartment complex, wife and mother, her
days already run 18 hours and more. It’s comforting to know that
while Grubb and her husband are out, the boys are in good hands.
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